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January 13, 2014 By Gail

When my dad, Alvin, passed away in October my siblings and I searched for ways to honor his memory, his humor, and his ongoing presence in our lives. Some of us asked for simple remembrances like his favorite sweater, or, in my case, his high school class ring. (Unfortunately it was not found among his things.)

My sister, Leah, came up with a unique and fun way to keep Dad with us. She bought a couple of Alvin stuffed toys…no, not little images of a Norwegian Lutheran man… but Alvin of Alvin and the Chipmunks fame. “Take him with you on your travels, and I’ll do the same. Let’s send photos back and forth of Alvin getting into mischief!” she said.

When my husband and I were on our Princess cruise I wondered if people would think I was a little “touched” to be carrying around a stuffed toy and photographing him in playful settings. (Okay, maybe that isn’t the only reason they’d think I was odd, but stick with me here.) To my surprise, however, folks embraced the idea and joined in. I sent my shots over the phone to Leah, and before we returned home, she was sending me shots of Alvin on her trip to England.

In a relatively short time “Alvin” has been flirting with women on the beach, on airplanes, in bars, and on a cruise ship. He has been caught sipping numerous cocktails, riding the train, photo bombing a shot of Big Ben, and making friends everywhere. Funny, but Dad made friends everywhere too. (As well as flirted like a hound dog, but that’s another story.)

This weekend my sister and Alvin went to San Diego. More shenanigans, more smiles, more of Dad’s spirit surrounding us. Thank you, Leah, for reminding me how happy times are synonymous with Dad. Your gift and the ongoing photo opportunities are the best part of my day.

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  1. Leah says

    January 13, 2014 at 6:05 pm

    Hey Sis,

    Something was telling me to get caught-up on your blog today… I started to giggle when I saw your Alvin post. I also enjoy sharing his naughty nature with you and others. You are so right, with each new adventure, his personality is more and more like dad, especially the friendly and flirting characteristics… I am pretty sure I can see a glimpse of dads smile light up his face with each pretty girl that gives “Alvin” a wink or kiss … yeah I’m smiling too!!! 🙂

    Love ya!

    L

    • Avatar photoGail says

      January 14, 2014 at 2:52 am

      I have been astonished at how complete strangers react to our little Alvin’s. It’s darn near a visceral happiness that starts in the heart and spreads to the face. Again, thank you for thinking of this adorable bridge that links our emotional journey past and present. And keep those adventures coming! Alvin is going ice fishing with Tad and me tomorrow!

      Hugs and love,
      Gail

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